A Guy in his mid 20's

A stage where responsibility, independence, money, glory, recognition and finally a speculation about the future all comes together. If marriage is the only thing which bothers girls, believe me there are 10-15 things which bothers a guy.

A stage where youngsters hesitate to consider them and elders hesitate to exclude them. A sense of maturity needs to be added up to the resume of character/behaviour. You can never ignore your once upon a time crush getting married to a guy, nor you can concentrate on catching up a girl. A time where we guys come to know that, life isn't about winning all the time. Its just adjusting yourself to keep up the pace with others. May be on the way you have to sacrifice a girl/a friend/or a life itself.

Parents have a sign of pride on their shoulders looking at their son's earning handsomely and we carry a big question mark on our shoulders to decide on the path we should move on. The same adda's where you spoke about a college gossip, or the feeling you had towards a girl, or the ambition you had: to do something good for the country is turned out to be a place where you just discuss about the salaries,PM's,SPM's, appraisal and hike.

Sometimes it makes me feel, life has changed/ the people have changed but in reality, its just that our priorities have changed. Your family asks for your future plans, but all that you can answer is a mumble. You don't know whether you are ready for marriage which seems very funny, when compared to the promise you made for the first girl friend, which stated:I ll marry you  as soon as i start earning. Isn't it funny? We are not sure whether we are ready for higher studies nor are we sure if the change of company will turn the things around.

The only thing you are clear about is that money doesn't make things simple, infact it makes it complex. Everyone look upto as a Grown up boy, but you still have a considerable amount of childishness which wants to creep out of your bounds once in a while. You cant actually express in public that you are not sure about your future, nor can you keep quiet, fighting it out on your own.You cant stop dreaming about a angel being your wife nor you can be confident of affording one.

I have faced all these things in just two years, and i'm sure there are lot in store to come. I'm quite sure there are many out there just like me, with the same questions/dilemmas. As i write this up, i feel, life is a quest to be  won on our own and more importantly finding answers to the dilemmas/questions.

Life of a guy isn't so simple as it seems to be!!!

Signing of in a state of dilemma,

A guy in mid 20's

Its Limitless Friendship

A person enters into your life so unexpectedly and moves on to become the prize possession of your life. The same person slaps on your face, gets hold of your collar and drags you out of the mess, you are about to fall into. Its the same person who gives her shoulder to cry and consoles in the very best way, so that you get strength to fight the rest of the battle. Its again the same person who makes each and everything possible on this earth just to make you feel that, you are wanted and you are special. I know everyone will have a friend of this kind.

But she is Unique and in a special way. Atleast for me.

Its been 6 years of the impeccable friendship. The best thing that ever happened to me. Its been one heck of a Roller Coaster ride. There were days in these 6 years, where we spoke about each and every corner in the world and at the same time there were days we dint speak at all, obviously its for silly reasons. I always believed in the saying "Great Friendship brings along with it Great Fights", so it happened in our's too. We used to fight everyday,literally, almost everyday. At the end of the day, we used to speak as normal as nothing had happened. May be another saying comes true too "Great Fights among friends gets them even closer once its over".

All these years, she has been in each and everyday of my life. She was there with me when i proposed a girl and she is still there with me,when the same girl had moved out of my life. She was there with me when i was applauded/praised/admired by everyone and she is still there with me when everyone else have negelected/rejected/forgotten me. 

That's what makes her so special!!! Its an unconditional friendship.In just a word its "Limitless".

Soon she will get married to a guy and i'm very happy to see her that way. She deserves the best place in this world for the kind of person she is, and i just want to make sure that she will be in safe hands.

I wish her all the best and thank her from bottom of my heart for standing with me in all phases of my life.

Signing off!!! by humming the song 

"Jab koi baat bigad jaaye, 

jab koi mushkil pad jaye, 

tum dena saath mera o humnawaz"